2dayzen3

dear diary

does it matter what people think about you?
yes it does especially if they are going to
1.lend you money or
2.give you a job or
3.let you watch innocent little kids.

in the first case they want to know if
you have a history of paying
your debt on time
or as you agreed.
in the other cases they want to know if
you had raped anyone or was on
any offenders lists.

GETTING TO KNOW YOU.
taking the time to build relationships
or how to win facebook and other friends...
and influence people etc..

My friend Carl spent a very long time trying
to get a bunch of stuff off his 'record'.
He is past forty years old now
and has a family, he even has
grandchildren. He went to jail
a while back, maybe when he
was a kid and it remained
on his 'record'.

He DID get it off but....
he had to go through alot.

People communicate in different ways.
If a person thinks you act like you
are better than they think you really
are, they may communicate in different
ways, we sometimes call these
PUT-DOWNS.

So, who am I, really?

I can't be just who I think I am.
I also need to take into account
what people think about me.

MY REPUTATION maybe more
important than I want it
to be, so I should care
what people think about me, right?

Wrong says Jo.
Peolpe will be controling me if I be
thinking about their OPINION.

What do you think?

also check out the NEW KARATE KID
with will smiths son....and also
what is "shared sacrifice"?